Year in Review: 2011

Here we go again, y’all: it’s the end of the year review! I really do love completing this every year, and reading everyone else’s.  Much like Project365, it faciltates self-reflection in an interesting way. Speaking of Project365, stay tuned for my Year in Photos post coming up soon. Please feel free to do the questionnaire on your blog or answer any of the questions you want to in the comments. If you do a blog post, leave me a link so I can go read about your year!

Note: This year, I took the liberty of re-phrasing a couple of the questions. I never liked having the pressure of visiting other countries, so I changed that question to “places.” I also don’t really make “musical discoveries,” so I re-wrote that one, too.

1. What did you do in 2011 that you’d never done before?

Had a seriously ill/injured pet — Egon’s back injury and surgery were definitely new for me. I also earned the job title of Lecturer. I had a few photography gigs by special request (some were even paid).

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

Last year, I wrote: “For 2011, I would like to: run a half marathon in under two hours, bike a half century (50 mile) ride, compete in at least one more triathlon, publish that article, and take action to achieve better job security.”

I came close on the half marathon goal and I’ll keep working on it for 2012. I completed the triathlon in August and earned a promotion at work that allows me a lot more security. I did almost nothing in the way of cycling beyond the triathlon training, and as far as my article, I, well…got distracted.

For 2012: I’d like to keep working on that half marathon goal, ride my bike more regularly (whether for commuting or sport), continue work on the article, and try to make healthier eating more compatible with my relationship (i.e. not just eat whatever he’s eating).

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

A friend from work had a baby girl in August — cute as a button. I had the pleasure of doing her portrait for both the birth announcements and the family Christmas card — so much fun!

4. Did anyone close to you die?

I’m thankful to answer “no” to this question once again.

5. What places did you visit?

I traveled to the usual destinations in Alabama, Georgia, and Mississippi, went to a conference in Kentucky, had a bachelorette weekend in Savannah, traveled to spectate at a race in St. Louis, ran a race in Savannah, visited with friends in Asheville and family in Tennessee.

6. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011?

A nice road bike, an HDTV (which is already on its way), a coffee grinder, my own office at work.

7. What dates from 2011 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

May 5th – Cinco de Mayo dinner with Golightly, PSP, Brunbec, and W.

May 31st – First date.

July 2nd – Golightly and PSP’s wedding, my first photography gig

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

The job promotion, I suppose. It was neither likely nor easy. I’m proud and satisfied and I just hope I can do it right.

9. What was your biggest failure?

Second-guessing myself and my judgment in a few personal situations; being immobilized with indecision. But not in a major way — I wouldn’t say anything’s been a real failure this year, thank dog.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

No illness; only minor running overuse unjuries.

11. What was the best thing you bought?

Renting my new apartment was a pretty great thing: it is by far the nicest place I’ve lived and I still love it even after the shine’s worn off. Of course, I did not “buy” it. Let’s say the washer and dryer. I still love doing laundry in my own machines enough that it is not a chore.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

My dog. After a rough start, he wound up dealing with the surgery and recovery very, very well. Certain students were wonderful as well.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

Plagiarists and cheaters. I simply cannot brook these behaviors; I cannot.

14. Where did most of your money go?

Paying off old debt (and acquiring new debt in the form of dog surgery bills, goddammit), general overhead. I’m a teacher, so I feel like it’s pretty probable that my answer will always be “general overhead.” Rent and basic necessities/bills are by far the bulk of what I spend money on.

15. What did you get really excited about?

Watching the finish line at the St. Louis marathon, shooting my good friends’ wedding, eating vegan food in Asheville, Egon coming home from the hospital, meeting someone new just when I needed to.

16. What song will always remind you of 2011?

Florence + the Machine’s “Heavy in Your Arms”

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

a) happier or sadder? happier, maybe, but probably the same
b) thinner or fatter? fatter by five pounds — thank you date nights at restaurants!
c) richer or poorer? richer — thank you salary bump!

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?

Reading for fun, strength training. (Oh ho ho, same as last year. I need to create space in my life for these things, apparently. I will officially…try.)

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?

Feeling guilty for saying “no.”  I always feel as if I am “working on” this issue but I never feel that it’s resolved. I try.

20. How did you spend Christmas?

In Tennessee with my family, trying (successfully) not to strangle anyone or get disgustingly drunk. Cooking dinner with my brother, fretting about gifts, and trying to mind my dog.

21. Did you fall in love in 2011?

You know I did; don’t make me say it like some kind of big goober.

22. What was your favorite TV program?

Doctor Who. I always knew I would love this show but it seemed so overwhelming and I didn’t know how to get started. I mentioned this to W on our first date, during the inevitable “What do you watch on TV?” conversation, and he was all like, “Oh, I can help you with that.” So we watched all 6 seasons of the new version of the show together and I fell in love. Someday I’ll watch the older show, too.

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?

Nope, but this year it’s just barely.

24. What was the best book you read?

I would love to say it was David Foster Wallace’s The Pale King, but I didn’t get very far into it before I started re-reading Infinite Jest for work. I very much enjoyed Deborah Harkness’s A Discovery of Witches and Margaret Atwood’s Oryx and Crake.

It wasn’t a really big reading year for me, though: I read a lot of things I wasn’t thrilled about, and am at the moment partly finished with more novels than I actually finished! I blame W. My normal reading time has always been at night, in bed, before I fall asleep. That’s not what I’m doing with that time slot now.

25. What music did you get excited about?

Nothing new this year, really! Hence, my normal year’s-end mix CD did not happen this year. Bummer.

I listened to Adele and to Mumford & Sons, just like everybody else did. I got the new Decemberists album (“The King is Dead”) and EP (“Long Live the King”), and the new Death Cab for Cutie album (“Codes and Keys”) but I didn’t get too excited about any of that. I think my favorite album from this year was Kanye’s “My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy,” which was actually released in 2010. Oops.

26. What did you want and get?

*blush*

27. What did you want and not get?

An injury-free year of running, a sub-2:00 half marathon, a road bike.

28. What was your favorite film of this year?

What did I see…hmm… Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (part II), Breaking Dawn (part I), The Hangover II, Paris at Midnight, Bad Teacher, Sherlock Holmes: Game of Shadows, Contagion, In Time, Super 8, Bridesmaids, Captain America, Our Idiot Brother, Source Code, The Adjustment Bureau, Horrible Bosses, and probably a few others. Early in the year I caught up on 2010′s Black Swan and 127 Hours. (To figure all this out I had to consult both the blog and a list I found online of 2011 movies.) I’m hard pressed to pick a favorite. I did really love the final Harry Potter movie: every single scene was good. Bridesmaids was great, too.

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

On my birthday, W took me out to a really nice dinner and then we stayed up a little late drinking champagne and singing along with the stereo. The next day I had friends over for a small get together and very nearly everyone showed up whom I’d invited and a lovely time was had by all. I turned 34.

30. What one thing would have made your year more satisfying?

Honestly, I can’t think of anything. Maybe spending the Christmas/New Year’s week holed up in a little cabin in the Smokies with a case of Champagne and my boyfriend and our dogs and some snow. That would have beat the pants off of Reality Christmas.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2010?

Desperately Wishing for Cooler Weather. I hate trying to get dressed for work in hot weather; it is impossible. I would like for my personal fashion concept to involve as many blazers and cardigans as possible.

32. What kept you sane?

Twitter. Mostly.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

David Tennant. Man, he is just fabulous. Also The Doctor, as a character.

34. What political issue stirred you the most?

Protests around the world (in the Middle East and the Occupy movement) and, to a lesser extent, the Republican primaries.

35. Whom did you miss?

Far-flung friends, as usual, but no one person in particular this year.

36. Who was the best new person you met?

Willard.

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2010.

Qui patitur vincit. Trust your instincts. Wait and watch and see. Don’t run Rock ‘n’ Roll branded races. Drink more champagne.

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.

This on is always a stumper. Here. Have this:

Sigh no more, no more.
One foot in sea, one on shore.
My heart was never pure
And you know me
You know me.

And man is a giddy thing
Oh man is a giddy thing
Oh man is a giddy thing
Oh man is a giddy thing.

Love: it will not betray you, dismay or enslave you,
It will set you free
Be more like the man you were made to be.
There is a design, an alignment, a cry
Of my heart to see
The beauty of love as it was made to be.

– Mumford & Sons

Why Hosts are Like Fish and Other Things I Learned this Christmas

Apparently, three days and three nights is the maximum amount of time I am able to spend with my family in Tennessee without committing any violent crimes. Therefore, as a pacifist, I was ethically obligated to leave without spending any more time there. I did manage to spend the holiday up there and have a fairly peaceful time, but only thanks to the magic of Twitter, which allowed me to air my every grievance without having to actually argue with my family. If you don’t follow me on there, you missed out on some gems, such as the fact that my increasingly conservative father tried to make the claim that “leftists” are all “eugenicists,” as evidenced by the existence of Planned Parenthood, which apparently exists so that poor people can be made to have abortions. Well. The more you know.

No, sadly I am not kidding. I won’t go into the rest of the nonsense, but take that one point above and multiply it by three days and three nights and there you have it.

[357/365] I only turned around where the trail was flooded..There were a family of geese.
The creek was high..I saw an abandoned putt-putt course.
Funny signage from the Greenbelt in my hometown, where I ran this morning.

Nonetheless, I managed to have some fun while there. I went for a wonderful run on the Kingsport Greenbelt, a paved trail in my hometown that connects different parks and neighborhoods, and is long and flat and pretty. It’s one of the few flat places to run there, actually, as my town is in a very hilly/mountainous part of Tennessee. It had been so rainy that the creek was really high and parts of the trail were flooded out, but I managed to see some lovely sights, meet a family of geese, discover an abandoned putt-putt course, and enjoy the signage that reminded me distinctly of something you’d see in the parks of Pawnee, Indiana. (Seriously, if you’re not watching Parks and Rec, get on that now.)

Dinner!

I also left on a good note after Christmas dinner, which my brother and I cooked and which came out wonderfully if I do say so myself. I forgot until after eating that marshmallows are not vegetarian (they contain gelatin) and I should have skipped them, but I guess I am not perfect. The gift exchange went well and I think everybody was happy with what I chose for them.

Driving off into the Sunset (Sunday)

I had been planning to stay over until Monday morning and then drive home in the daylight, but I decided to leave after dinner on Sunday. I still made it back home by 10:30 pm even though I left right as the sun was sinking low. A road trip in the dark is not my favorite, but I tried to enjoy the quiet roads and the prospect of my own couch and bed awaiting me.

Scenes from my Drive. Blurg.

It was much better than the trip up there a few days before, which had involved over three hours of driving through a blinding, furious, torrential downpour that actually followed me northeast on interstates 40 and 81. How rude.

Egon and I were both pretty exhausted after the stresses of travel and family drama, and we slept in until almost 11:00 yesterday morning. It was glorious, as I’m sure I don’t need to tell you. Today has felt pretty self-indulgent, too: I started out with Body Pump class at the gym and then a quick run. Nothing better than doing something good for yourself first thing in the morning, whether that’s much needed sleep or a workout: each one has its own time. Body Pump, if you don’t know, is a group strength training class where you do a routine of weight-lifting moves set to music. Normally I love this because the music, instructor, and other people in class are all very motivating. I don’t need much motivation to do cardio as I just plain love running and biking — but when it comes to weights, I need all the help I can get, so this is a great option for me. But can I just mention that it drives me absolutely insane when the instructor and/or the other class members can’t keep time with the beat correctly? As a former marching band nerd, I take offense at any human’s inability to work within a 4/4 time signature. BUT ANYWAY.

Continuing my self-indulgent day, I watched some Vampire Diaries (I’m just getting started with season three), read a bit, and then went TV shopping. I’m buying a flat screen HDTV after getting to use W’s for a long time and seeing how much better it is than my old, crappy, 19″ tube. It is seriously nice, y’all. He’s been generous enough to leave his TV over at my place since Egon came home from the hospital and had to be crated 24/7 — we just stayed here all the time and it was better to have the nicer TV for a lot of reasons. The ability to play BluRays and stream Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon is, in a word, awesome. But I need to give it back to him soon, so I’ve been shopping around for my own smaller version. Thanks to a couple of gift cards and some money I received, I was able to get a 37″ model (which I got a great deal on because I ordered it online). It feels quite silly and materialistic indeed to be getting myself something so, well, excessive, but I think the enjoyment will be entirely worth it. It should arrive the week of January 2. Hooray!

So how was your Holiday weekend? Do you have any incredibly indulgent gifts about which to boast? Shocking tales of family conflict? Please do tell!

Happy Holidays

Greetings, friends! Christmas is almost here — are you ready, if you celebrate it? I am ready! The one thing I haven’t done yet is mail out holiday cards, which are I guess going to turn into New Year’s cards instead this year as I am so hopelessly tardy on that. On the bright side, this means that if you’d like to be on my card mailing list, there’s STILL TIME! Because I am SO BEHIND! So just email me your mailing address (kateoblog at gmail) and I’ll send you a little how-do-you-do.

In all other respects, though, I am ready to Initiate Holiday Action Sequence. I’ve got gifts for my family all figured out and bought and wrapped. Oh yes indeed! I spent last night wrapping gifts and drinking some (wait for it) pink champagne. It was doing business as “sparkling rosé,” but come on now. I was feeling silly and festive and that just happened to be what went down at Kroger as I was faced with the selection of sparkling wines. That pink bottle made its merry way into my basket. Don’t judge.

Oh, Champagne...

Anyway, I have the guy’s present worked out, too — despite the cruel fact that some certain retailers to remain nameless had a great sale going on and then ENDED the sale the week before Christmas just to prey upon the desperate last minute shoppers who’d be willing to pay full price. Well, they didn’t get me! I found a competitor stocking a similar product at a much better price. Look, I’d tell you all about it but he 1) hasn’t opened the gift yet, and 2) knows about this blog, so you’ll just have to remain ignorant for now.

Wrapping

Ribbon.Stack

Anyway. I’ve got a table full of festive presents that, sadly, can’t be placed under my pretty tree because, let’s face it, that’s just dog entrapment right there. My suitcase is also packed and ready to go. What’s that? Yeah, I’m fixin’ to head out of town tomorrow morning, up to East Tennessee to visit my family. I’ll be up there until just after Christmas, and then back here in time to decompress, celebrate New Year’s Eve, and then recover in time for the new semester.

Spikes
[359/365] Berries

Christmas 2010

I normally look forward to snow in Tennessee at Christmas, as it happens almost every year. Last year, in fact, it started to snow while we were at Midnight Mass, and when we came out of the church it was all drifting down beautifully and magically and it was perfection, I tell you. This year, I don’t expect to get my snowy wish granted — the forecast is showing temperatures in the 50s and 60s, only slightly cooler than the 60s and 70s we’ve been seeing here in Alabama. In December. I tell you what: I do not approve of this bullshit. It is supposed to be winter, you know, and not only winter but Christmas! Well, you can’t win them all, can you?

I hope you all have just a wonderful Christmas (and/or a great weekend)! Eat good food, sleep in, hug your friends and snorgle your pets. Happy holidays!

On Drinking Champagne and Other Important Commitments

I have decided to commit to drinking more champagne. Yes, that’s right. More champagne. I feel that this promise I have made to myself is important enough that I should announce it here on my very own website. Here’s the thing: I like wine, I really, really do. I like red wine, and white wine, and I really love champagne — but I ike champagne about 40x more than I like other white wine. And why shouldn’t I? It’s bubbly and delicious and like a fancy, black-tie party in your mouth. Champagne is awesome.

Getting Ready

So why not drink it all the time? I think there is some commonly held cultural assumption that champagne is for special occasions only — birthdays and job promotions and weddings and such — and is not appropriate for everyday, with dinner, less special drinking. (Not that I’d drink it literally every DAY, but you know what I mean.) Why should that be the case? If I can buy a good bottle of champagne for about the same amount of money as I’d spend on a good bottle of pinot grigio or sauvignon blanc, why shouldn’t I? Expecially if I like it approximately 40x better?

So there you have it. More champagne, less pinot grigio. Boom. Instant quality-of-life improvement.

In Other Important Commitments News, I have decided to re-attempt to learn knitting. Well, I do already know how to knit, sort of. I can cast on and knit and purl and make little rows of stitches and whatnot. I’ve never yet gotten to the point of casting off, however, as I’ve never completed a project. Once I tried to make a Gryffindor scarf, only I got started wrong (fine yarn, skinny needles, and a project that was taking far too long to complete due to the insane number of stitches required to grow it in length at all). I never finished that scarf, and I think it eventually became a casualty of my pre-cross-country-move purge.

things i have not been doing

Yesterday I started a new project. While I was stuck in the Wal-Mart waiting for my car to be finished, I found myself staring down the wall of yarn and deciding to try again. I found a very thick (“super bulky”) yarn that advertised itself as one that helped “projects come together quickly” and was “easy care.” This time I tried to get larger needles (though I think I could have gone even bigger with the gauge) and I have started once again on a scarf. This time, no ambitious stripes or anything, just solid color, easy peasy. I hope.

[349/365] Scarf Attempt

If this one works out well enough, though, I may have bigger projects in mind.

Doctor Who Scarf

We’ll see. If it turns into a huge, frustrating, yarn-based debacle, however, at least I’ll still have my champagne.